The Undefined Emotional Solar Plexus: The Entrepreneur Who Feels Everything

 
 

The Undefined Emotional Solar Plexus: The Entrepreneur Who Feels Everything

If your Emotional Solar Plexus (ESP) is undefined, you are likely a natural empath.

You feel what others are feeling.
Not just lightly—amplified.

This center governs emotion, relationships, and expression.
And when it's undefined, it doesn’t generate its own emotional wave. Instead, it takes in the emotional energy of those around you—and turns the volume way up.

You’re Not Overly Emotional—You’re Amplifying Emotion

About 50% of the population has an undefined ESP. That means you're not alone—but it can feel like you are, especially when:

  • You're in emotionally intense environments

  • You take on client stress or team dynamics

  • You're in conflict and can't tell where your feelings end and theirs begin

  • You feel "too emotional"—but don't know why

This isn’t a flaw.
It’s your sensitivity in motion.
But it can become confusing when you mistake it for your identity.

Entrepreneurial Challenges for the Undefined ESP

You may:

  • Feel emotionally overwhelmed in client sessions, group programs, or meetings

  • Avoid confrontation because emotional intensity feels unbearable

  • People-please to keep the peace (and avoid the emotional spike)

  • Overextend yourself emotionally just to feel calm again

  • Struggle to make decisions because you’re absorbing how everyone else feels about it

Sound familiar?

You're not "too sensitive."
You're just designed to feel it all—and then let it go.

Reparenting the Undefined Emotional Center in Business

Here’s what emotional clarity looks like for you:

  • Alone time is not optional—it’s a necessity. You need space to clear out others’ emotions.

  • Your emotional highs and lows are often not yours. Learn to ask: “Is this mine?”

  • You don’t need to fix emotional discomfort. It’s not yours to carry or resolve.

  • You’re designed to observe emotion—not embody it.

When you realize that most of what you feel isn’t you, you free yourself to navigate business decisions, relationships, and leadership with far more calm and clarity.

Emotional Wisdom = Discernment, Not Distance

You’re not meant to detach.
You’re meant to discern.

✨ Who’s emotion is this?
✨ What’s my role in this moment?
✨ How can I care without carrying?

This is where the true gift of the undefined Emotional Center shines:
You become a master of holding space without absorbing the storm.

Reflection for the Undefined Emotional Entrepreneur:

  • Where do I feel emotionally responsible for others?

  • What emotions do I know aren't mine—but I still carry?

  • What boundaries could help me stay centered in shared spaces?

  • What happens when I give myself permission to feel and release?

You are not the emotional chaos around you.
You are the calm witness of it.
Your strength is not in matching the room—but in knowing when to step outside it.

😮‍💨 You’re Not Too Sensitive—You’re Just Feeling What Was Never Yours

You feel everything.
The tension in the room. The emotions behind someone’s words. The unspoken pressure to be “okay” all the time.

And somewhere along the way, you learned to manage the mood—to keep the peace, to avoid conflict, to carry what no one else would.

If your Emotional Center is undefined, this makes sense.

You’re not broken. You’re just deeply open.
But when your business starts running on other people’s emotions instead of your truth… you end up exhausted, unclear, and disconnected from what’s actually yours.

The Human Design Perspective Shift™ Call is a space to gently lay that down.

This free 30-minute call isn’t a place to be fixed or taught.
It’s a quiet container—where you don’t have to perform, soothe, or sort anything out.

Together, we’ll reflect on:

  • Where you may be making emotional decisions that don’t belong to you

  • What starts to feel clear when you stop trying to manage how everyone else feels

  • Whether Lead From Within™ is the supportive space your system is craving—or not

✨ You don’t need to be the emotional anchor for everyone else.
You just need a space where you get to feel safe, too.

🧭 Book your free Perspective Shift Call
Because clarity comes when you stop carrying what was never yours to hold.

Aypril Porter

Hi, I’m Aypril (she/her)—Projector, guide, and reformed over-doer. After a decade of entrepreneurship and way too many “PIVOT!” moments (yes, Friends fans, I see you), I finally realized I wasn’t doing business wrong—I was doing it against my energy.

Now, I help soul-led entrepreneurs stop performing and start aligning—so they can lead, live, and create in ways that actually feel good. I’m an ICF-certified coach, Human Design specialist, author of Parenting the Child You Have, and here to help you build a business that honors your truth, not your wounds.

Let’s reparent the parts of you that still think you have to hustle for your worth.

https://www.ayprilporter.com
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