Episode 33 - Sacred Spaces: A Hospital Chaplain's Journey Through Grief and Spiritual Care
In this deep and insightful episode, Reverend Christine Davies, a Presbyterian minister and hospital chaplain, shares her experiences of providing spiritual care in healthcare settings. She discusses the nuances of grief, the misconceptions about chaplaincy, and how to support those facing loss. Drawing from over two decades of experience, Rev. Davies offers valuable perspectives on normalizing grief, becoming better listeners, and integrating spiritual practices into daily life.
About Rev. Christine Davies
Reverend Christine Davies is a Presbyterian minister, clinical pastoral educator, and seminary professor with over twenty years of experience as a hospital chaplain and healthcare professional. She holds degrees from Princeton Theological Seminary and Rutgers University. Beyond her hospital work, she maintains a private practice as a spiritual director and lives on a small hobby farm in New Jersey where she practices beekeeping and tends to her chickens.
Key Insights on Hospital Chaplaincy
Chaplains provide emotional and spiritual support regardless of religious beliefs
The role focuses primarily on listening and being present
Chaplains help with advanced directives and care planning
Support extends to patients, families, and hospital staff
The work involves both end-of-life care and supporting those with chronic conditions
Cultural Integration and Grief Support
Understanding the difference between religion and spirituality
Normalizing different types of grief (anticipatory, intracyclic)
Addressing grief in life transitions beyond death
Supporting families through various loss experiences
Navigating COVID-19's impact on death and dying
Recommended Practices for Supporting Those Who Grieve
Show up and be present without trying to fix
Use direct language about death and dying
Avoid religious platitudes
Allow space for questions and emotions
Share memories of loved ones who have died
Connect with Rev. Christine Davies
Website: ChristineVDavies.com
Substack newsletter - https://journeyingalongside.substack.com/
Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/rev-christine-davies/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/cvdavies/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/christine.davies
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rev.christine_davies
Notable Quote
"The best advice I can give here is to show up and shut up... your presence is powerful."