Episode 16 - Introduction to the G Center

Transcript

Hello friends. today we are talking about the G Center, which is the center for identity, for self-love, and for direction. 43% roughly of the population has the G center open. So when this center is open or undefined, it means that this person is very open to influenced by the environment and the people around them.

They are. Somebody who is somewhat of a chameleon, they can blend into their communities in in different ways. You may see a child or even an adult who changes friend groups and they start dressing and acting and speaking like this friend group. And it seems very different from the person that you know, but it's not that they are changing so much, is that they are adapting to their environment and they're trying on these different identities and.

Kind of, yeah, identities of what it's like to be somebody else or what it's like to speak like them. And they don't do it consciously. It's a, it's a subconscious thing that is happening as they are experiencing different, identities. And with that comes direction, you know, they may follow the direction of their friend group or people they're with.

So if you have a child who is easily influenced in this way, it's important that. The friends that they choose are in alignment with the person that they want to be. If you start to see your child behaving in a way that is not in alignment with the child that you know, and it's in a negative way, it's an opportunity to look around them and who are they spending their time with, is that influencing them?

And you know, that can provide a lot of insight for you. The benefit of this being open is that, You do get to try on a lot of different identities. You get to experience what it's like to have that identity of somebody else. In a sense, it's kind of like playing dress up with identities and adapting to your surroundings, and you can fit into any group.

So if you have this center open, you know, you could probably ask 10 different groups of people who this person spends time with. What they're like and they would all describe this person a little differently and they would describe them as each of these groups. Whereas if you had a defined G center and you ask 10 different groups of people that this person hangs out with what this person's like, there would be very common themes.

They would be very consistent because the person who has this defined, which is about which is about 53% of the population, is very consistent in who they are and. They have a direction in life that they're headed, and even though they may change direction at any given point in time, there's kind of a trajectory that they are on where they know the path that they're headed on.

And if they choose to veer from that path, it's because they consciously choose that, not because. They ended up with another group of friends who kind of led them in that direction. You know, there's a conscious decision that is happening with the defined G Center because, it is about who they are.

And that's the other thing with the defined G Center is that, you know, if you have a child with a a G center that's defined and connected to the throat, this is a child who speaks from their identity, they speak who they are and what's important to them. And. If that child is criticized or, you know, not listened to when they say who they are or talk about their identity, it can be very, very harmful and very wounding to that child to hear that because it feels like a rejection of the self.

You know, when they speak up and they tell you who they are, you want to listen because when you say, oh, you're not like that. Oh, that's not you, or something along those lines, It feels like rejection. It feels like you don't accept them for who they are. And that's the biggest fear of the defined G Center, is that they won't be accepted for who they are.

They won't be loved for who they are. so you know, if you have a child with that G Center to throat connection, listen carefully to them, treat them with those kid gloves and, and be tender with their their hearts because they wear their hearts on their sleeves when they share who they are. It is from the core of their being, and it means everything to them to have you hear them and accept them for who they are.